Just felt you should be aware that Dan Savage isn’t really a good resource. He’s been called up for LGBT+ issues a trillion times and he’s generally quite rude. So you’re aware :)
I am perhaps more aware than most that Dan Savage isn’t a good resource for poly folks (but that’s a story for another day.) But on other subjects, he can be quite helpful. I am always open to more suggestions for more helpful, less obnoxious resources on kink, sex, and relationships!