She loves me. She loves me too. Only one of them would be okay with me having two girlfriends but i love them both the same and the other one is not okay with me dating both, please help

You have a hard but necessary choice to make. It sounds like there is no way you can date both of them at the same time, since one of them needs a monogamous relationship. Your choices are:

• Date one of them monogamously, forgoing a dating relationship with the other person
  
• Date one of them polyamorously, forgoing a dating relationship with the other person but leaving yourself open to future poly partners
• Date neither of them (which is always and forever an option in all situations)

All choices require a sacrifice, but all come with a benefit as well. You need to think about what’s best for you right now, then make the call. No one else can make that choice for you.