So I’m currently the only person in my triad who pursues relationships outside the triad. I have a qpp and a girlfriend in addition to my boyfriend and girlfriend in the triad, and I have many casual sexual relationships with a lot of my friends or people I meet because sex has always been such a chill thing for me. None of my partners are even remotely bothered by this but I can’t help feeling like it’s a little strange or I’m doing something wrong here?

This is an easy one! If your partners aren’t bothered by it, and it’s fun and healthy for you, there is nothing strange or wrong about it. People have different levels of interest in casual sexual relationships, and that’s okay! Our culture likes to say otherwise, but don’t let those toxic messages get to you. Be safe, have fun, and own who you are and what you like!