I’m newly poly and honestly I don’t know where to look like to find potential partners honestly. It’s like playing battleship, various wrong hits and such. Where on earth do I begin?

OKCupid is the dating site best suited for poly folks to be open about what they’re looking for. You can search/filter potential matches by their non-monogamous status as well.

If you have any in your area, go to poly meetups! Many are listed on Meetup.com, so check that out first. You can also try the polyamory subreddit to see if there’s anything going on in your area, or google “polyamory [your location]” and see what comes up.

For *reasons,* there’s also a lot of overlap between the kinky community and the polyamorous community, so if that’s something you’re interested in, check out Fetlife and local BDSM spaces/communities, which often host poly meetups as well. 

Good luck! In the meantime, while you’re looking for potential partners, keep learning and working on yourself. If you haven’t already, read More Than Two and The Ethical Slut, and be wary of predators who target people who are new to the poly community.